Find Your Ideal Life Partner

Tips on Finding Your Ideal Life Partner

 

Have you thought about what you have learned this year about Life, Love, and Relationship? What have you gained? What is your next step? Where are you going next?

If you are searching for your Ideal Relationship, here are some tips for this week.

1. Fill your heart with love

You fill your heart with love by finding something or someone that you love. If you have friends whom you love, then, give your love to your friends. If you have a pet, then, give your love to your pet. If you love to dance, read, write, cook, or do some activities that you love, then, put your whole heart into everything you do. When you put your heart into everything you do, you will find joy, happiness, and love. You will become a magnet of love. You will attract more love into your life.

2. Let go of your limiting beliefs

Find your hidden beliefs that are holding you back. Here are some limiting belief:

Fear of greatness
Fear of not being good enough
Fear of not being loved
Fear of rejection
Fear of failure
Fear of success
I don't deserve/ I am not worthy of love

You can practice letting go of your limiting beliefs by:

1. Be aware of the limiting beliefs.
2. Ask yourself if that belief is true or not?
3. Dig deeper and find out where it is coming from. Whose voice is it that is talking to you? Perhaps it is from your parents, your ex, other people, or your own critic voice that has been sabotaging you for years.
4. Change your new belief
Write it down on a piece of paper or type into your computer in bold letters. State in a present tense.
Here are some example of new beliefs:
I am good enough.
I am worthy of love.
I can succeed in finding my Ideal Life Partner.
I deserve to be loved.
5. Post it somewhere that you can see it daily
6. State your new belief out loud 2 times a day morning and night. Make it a routine. You might need to say your new belief 50 times a day to replace the old.
7. Do this exercise for the next 30 days

It takes time to change your limiting beliefs. It takes reputation, determination, courage, and love. You can do it!

3. Be happy

You can choose to be happy. When you are happy, you attract more happiness in your life. When you are happy, you are attractive!!! It is an attitude that you want to have in order for you to live joyfully. You are the Chooser! You can be happy now by choosing to be!

4. Be the Ideal person who you want to attract

If you want to attract love, be love, loving, and lovable.

5. Give of yourself

The secret of getting love is by giving it. Give without expectation. Give with love even if it is a small thing like your smile. Smile from the heart! Everybody loves a smile. Find some ways to give each day. You will find love, peace, and happiness. The key is to detach from the outcome. You give because you want to give; not because you want something back. That is the true giving. It is giving without expectation. When you give from your heart, it all will come back to you in many beautiful magical ways!!!

6. Believe in yourself

To succeed in anything in life, you have to believe in yourself. If you want to succeed in love, you have to believe that you are worthy of love. Believe that you will meet the right person. Believe that you are good enough. Believe that you have the right to be the Chooser. Don't wait to have someone to choose you.

7. Take actions

Nothing will happen unless you take actions. What is your next step on finding love? What do you need to do? Where will you meet your life partner? What is your plan? If you want something, take actions. If you want love, take actions now. The Divine Spirit will step in and help you when you first help yourself on finding love.

Love starts within a loving heart. Love yourself first. Then, love others more.

If you want love, be love.
If you want peace, be peace.
If you want happiness, be happy.
If you want joy, be joyful.
If you want your Ideal Life Partner, be the Ideal Life Partner.
Just be...And start giving from the heart today

Find Your Future Husband

15 Ways to Find a Husband

Perhaps you don't meet people in the course of your daily life, or you're not connecting with the right type of person. First of all decide what you have to offer to a future partner, by working out what sort of things interest you. No one is going to like all these options, but they are ways of widening your circle of friends.
1. GOLF
Golfing is a male activity, get lessons and join them on the course. Men network on the golf course all the time, take it further and progress to flirting. Even if you are not good at sports, the men will most often be encouraging of your efforts.
2. GO TO A SPORTS BAR ON GAME NIGHT
Why watch big sporting events at home when you can hang out a sports bar complete with big-screen TV, electronic sports games?
This is a particularly good way to meet people if you are sporty yourself, impress the guys with your knowledge. Sport is a participation event and it is a lot more fun watching in a group than alone.
3. VOLUNTEER TO WORK FOR A NON PROFIT ORGANIZATION
People who are prepared to give a little of their free time are often very caring people, capable of passion and commitment, there are loads of group activities, that mean you can widen your circle of friends, with the same interests. There is always the possibility of a relationship progressing to a date.
4. JOIN A POLITICAL CAMPAIGN
If you are politically inclined and have an interest in which you are prepared to give up some time, this is a good way to find a date. Not only that but you can be sure if you have both joined to fight for the same cause, then you have at least one thing in common. If it does not work to find a date than you have lost nothing, but will have at least widened your circle of friends.
5. EVENING CLASSES
You do not have to be academic here, it is not necessary to study Physics. Find out about something that you have always wanted to learn. Take the time to study another language, or do something "arty". Art classes depending where you live, cover a very wide base from sculptor, to water colors. Men can always be found in a class about car maintenance etc.
6. TAKE SOME CRITICISM FROM YOUR FRIENDS
Marketing yourself to find a mate is not always easy. Take some advice from friends who have embarked on a successful long term relationship. If you are always attracting the wrong sort of person, ask a friend why they think that is the case. If you have a healthy emotional life, you should spot fairly on in a relationship that someone is going to hurt you. Realize your own worth, some women do really believe that they are not worthy of being loved. Boost your self esteem. If low self esteem is a problem, then try and look at the tip below.
7. ENROLL IN A SELF-IMPROVEMENT WORKSHOP
Men sometimes tend to be more into self improvement than women. However, any body who has taken the steps to enroll and participate in this type of activity are probably sensitive, the chances are they are also looking to interact with other sensitive people. It's a great way for men to find out how women think. Be positive you may not meet the man of your dreams but will probably have boosted your self esteem.
8. JOIN A GYM
Even if you are fit and healthy you can always find men in a gym. If you are not fit, then getting fit is a great way to boosting you self esteem. Being fit gives you a better outlook on life and you feel much better. You are also more relaxed when you look your best.
9. READ "IF THE BUDDHA DATED," BY CHARLOTTE KASL
Buddha means the enlightened one, or one who is awake. Kasl gives you the best advice about how to make, but very significant changes in your life. Part of her advice is to literally make room for a partner in your life. If you have a single bed get a double, if you have only one pillow buy more. She also has some great tips for attracting new people in your life. This isn't mandatory by any means but it will appeal to you once you start reading.
10.STAND BACK AND TAKE STOCK
Men are not lost souls, they are not hiding away. You will have far more chance of connecting with someone if you are personally fulfilled. If you are into sports big time consider competing in a marathon. Take a creative writing course, change you career. Make yourself happy, and have some fun
11 JOIN A HISTORICAL SOCIETY
Even small towns have historical societies, which will search and record the local events in your area in the past. Most of the will probably be male.
12. GET COOKING
O. K. so you know how to cook, often men do not and they will join a cookery class. This is a good one - believe me.
13. LEARN HOW TO PLAY POKER
Most poker players are men, find out how to play, and then join a game.
14.GO TO A BOOK SIGNING
Here is were you can guarantee that you will find someone with similar interests and intellectual pursuits.
15. MAKE MEN FIND YOU
Since the earliest days of mankind, a woman can show a man she is interested in him, the smart one's let him think he is doing the chasing. This is the twenty first century and you can show a man you are interested in him. Catch his eye and then immediately look away, but then look back at him. If he finds you attractive, he will think he has fond you, and will most often make a move.

How to Chose your Perfect mate,Spouse or Life partner

Choosing a mate may be one of the most important decisions you make in your life. Yet, on what basis will you do it? Will you leave it to destiny? Will you leave it to chance? Will you settle for less than you want because you believe that what you want is not readily available?

Making an active choice

Choosing a mate is so vitally important to your level of happiness and success and yet people often pay it less attention than choosing a home or a car. People prefer to attribute it to some mystical force of the universe, some divine power, and hope for the best. Given the high rate of divorce in the Western world, it seems clear that this method of choosing your life partner just is not working.

Is it destiny? Is it all beyond your control? I submit that while destiny certainly has a role to play you have an even greater role to play in the choice.

Over the course of your life, you will date, and even fall in love with, many people. However, who you choose to spend the rest of your life with should have as much to do with making an intelligent informed decision as with falling in love. The most critical information you need to know is what you want in a mate.

Consider for instance how you go about buying a refrigerator. You first determine your requirements. How large should the fridge be to accommodate your groceries? What about the door? Would you prefer a single door or a double door? If the latter, should they be side-by-side or top and bottom? Should the freezer be on top or below? Do you need ice in the door? Should the vegetables have separate temperature controls? How many shelves do you need? Glass or plastic shelving? You spend a reasonable amount of time determining your needs and specifications when it comes to a refrigerator – an item that you will dispose of in a few years. Does not your choice of a life partner deserve at least the same effort and thought?

Determine your needs

The first step you need to take in choosing the perfect mate is to determine your requirements in a mate. I suggest you consider all the possible attributes that are important to you. The major ones as well as the seemingly unimportant ones. There are several different kinds of attributes and this can seem like an overwhelming task at first. If you break it down into distinct areas identifying the characteristics of your ideal mate will become a more manageable project. Some categories to consider include Physical attributes, Career, Health, Finance, Family, Religion, Background, and most importantly, Personal Character and Values.

Use these characteristics to define your ideal mate. Is he tall, athletically built, sensitive, affectionate, stockbroker, Democrat, Catholic, from an old Irish family? Is she full-bodied, gentle, artist, empathetic, atheist? When choosing a mate, it is often difficult to identify your requirements down to this level. You may need to identify which of the general categories are of importance to you at all. For example, you may have no view on Religion, either good or bad. You may feel equally comfortable with someone who has an active religious life as with one who has none. However Finance may be of supreme importance to you and you could not consider someone who did not view it as seriously.

How to find a perfect life partner

Some people have a great relationship with a life partner. They have been happily married (or having been living with another) for quite some time; things are just perfect; and the living together flows like it travels on those fast trains: comfortably, efficiently, and bump-less. If you are one of them, well... Congratulations! With so many broken hearts flying all around, you may feel like you have won the lottery.
And perhaps you have. Now, why is it that some people are so luck in finding the perfect life partners while the rest of us need to struggle to keep a somewhat satisfactory but troublesome relationship afloat? It doesn't seem fair.
In fact, it is not fair. We all deserve to have the most magnificent partner and the most blessed partnership, no matter who are. There is however, the matter of attraction, you know. I am talking about the Law of Attraction.
Even unbeknownst to those "lucky" fellows, the only reason they beat us into finding the perfect partner is that they think "right" and therefore their vibrations are raised and aligned to the energy of the universe. They have attracted and manifested the perfect life partner.
Now, of course, before they manifested the perfect life partners, they must have known what they were looking for. Without an idea or a plan, finding a suitable suitor is short of a miracle. Not that miracles don't exist. They do, and they happen all the time.
But miracles are nothing more than the perfect vibration and the perfect alignment with cosmic energy. So, that means that all of us can perform miracles all the time. And we know this because we have proof of their existence all the time. We need not go far to realize that.
For instance, think of when you were driving and by a miracle you avoided a potentially fatal accident. You may think of miraculously healing when all hope had already died, miraculously receiving money that you needed to pay for something; or miraculously receiving help when you needed it the most. And so on.
In fact, it is really not that hard to find the perfect life partner once you put you "right" mind to it. Here is what you do:
1. Write down all everything to begin with. When we write things downs we are already in our way to manifesting. Write by hand for the hand is connected with your heart.
2. Write all the attributes, characteristics, qualities, and so on that you want in your partner. Leave room for unexpected surprises. For instance, you want a "Prince Charming" but will do very well with a real person.
3. Make a plan on how you will go about meeting this person. I had a friend who said that his wife would show up at his door. Lo and behold, one "boring" Saturday evening, this girl knocks at his door holding a bunch of flowers. It was love at first sight. It so happens that the girl was on her way to a dinner party and knocked at the wrong door.
4. Think the "right" thoughts. Remember that whatever you put out there will come back to you like a boomerang. Use your affirmation cards. They will put you in the way of sending positive vibes and aligning your thoughts.
5. Be open to receive and experiment. Perhaps the person that comes to you at first is not the perfect person, but you need them to prepare for the real one. Think of Eliza Doolittle. She wouldn't have married Freddie speaking the way she did originally.
6. Bless whoever is on their way to you. Surround them with light.
7. Be grateful that the perfect life partner is coming to you.
8. Trust that the universe only wants you to be completely and incandescently happy. Expect miracles.
Manifesting your perfect life partner is easier than you think. Go for it!